My boyfriend can’t get enough of swinging club but I refuse to go again – I feel like we’re cheating on our relationship

DEAR DEIDRE: MY boyfriend suggested we go swinging after he started experiencing difficulties with his erections. We went once and now he can’t get enough of it. I am 37, and my boyfriend is 44. We are both divorcees who share a home and a deep love for each other. Before his erection problems, our…