I want my lover to leave his wife for me as he’s the only way I’ll get away from my abusive husband

DEAR DEIDRE: I’VE decided the only way to escape my narcissistic and violent husband is to beg my lover to leave his wife when he gets back from holiday. But I’m terrified it’s not going to work. I’ve tried to warn him about making the same mistake I did — having children with someone you…